Network training, GPU out of memory

I am trying to train a 3d convolutional network, but am running into memory issues with my gpu (GTX 3080, 10gb VRAM). My training dataset is 77.5 GB of 16x8x800 image sequences formatted as .mat files. I've already tried loweing the minibatchsize as low as it will go. I am currently trying to train with the cpu but it is painfully slow. Does anyone know how I can make this so that my GPU can run this?

clc
clear

imds = imageDatastore('filelocation','FileExtensions','.mat','LabelSource','none','ReadFcn',@matRead);
labels = load('filelocationLabels');
importLabels = labels.Labels;
imds.Labels = importLabels(1:length(dir('filelocationLabels'))-2);
[imds2,imds1] = splitEachLabel(imds,500,'randomized');


layers = [
    image3dInputLayer([16 8 800 1],"Name","image3dinput","Normalization","none")
    convolution3dLayer([3 3 3],32,"Name","conv3d")
    convolution3dLayer([3 3 3],64,"Name","conv3d_1","Padding",[1 1 1;1 1 1])
    maxPooling3dLayer([3 3 3],"Name","maxpool3d_1")
    convolution3dLayer([3 3 3],64,"Name","conv3d_2","Padding",[1 1 1;1 1 1])
    maxPooling3dLayer([3 3 3],"Name","maxpool3d_2")
    fullyConnectedLayer(512,"Name","fc_1")
    reluLayer("Name","relu_1")
    fullyConnectedLayer(256,"Name","fc_2")
    reluLayer("Name","relu_2")
    fullyConnectedLayer(128,"Name","fc_3")
    reluLayer("Name","relu_3")
    fullyConnectedLayer(10,"Name","fc_4")
    softmaxLayer("Name","softmax")
    classificationLayer("Name","classoutput")];


options = trainingOptions('adam', ...
    'InitialLearnRate',0.001, ...
    'ExecutionEnvironment','gpu', ...
    'ValidationData',imds2, ...
    'ValidationFrequency',50, ...
    'MiniBatchSize',1, ...
    'MaxEpochs',8, ...
    'GradientThreshold',2, ...
    'Verbose',1, ...
    'VerboseFrequency',1000,...
    'Shuffle','every-epoch', ...
    'Plots','training-progress');


HandyNet = trainNetwork(imds,layers,options);

%%


function data = matRead(filename)
inp = load(filename);
f = fields(inp);
data = inp.(f{1});
end

[Abolfazl Chaman Motlagh]

your network is very heavy. so try to reduce number of filters in conv3d layers, i guess. you have 32 , 64 and 64 filters respectively. each are 3x3x3. for example start with 10 to see if it works.

also use stride in conv.

and also use bigger poolSize in maxpooling layer.

all above reduce data during training.